Lillian CONNORS

1930 - 2000  (69 ans)

• Nom	Lillian CONNORS
  Naissance	7 oct 1930	Montreal,,Montreal,Quebec,Canada,
  Genre	Féminin
  Inhumation	jan 2000	Ontario,,,,Canada,[Pinecrest Cemetery in Ottawa,Ontario,Canada] - Ottawa,Carleton County
  Décès	16 jan 2000	Ottawa,,,Ontario,Canada,Carleton County
  _CREA	17 sept 2023
  _FIL	LEGITIMATE_CHILD
  ID personne	I2477	Arbour-Pierre1615
  Dernière modif.	25 jan 2024

  
  

  Famille	Ernest Willard ARBOUR,   n. 24 juin 1917, Renfrew County,,,Ontario,Canada,Chalk River d. 8 juil 1980, Ottawa,,,Ontario,Canada,Carleton County (Âgé de 63 ans)
  Mariage	9 avr 1955	Renfrew County,,,Ontario,Canada,Deep River
  _CREA	21 août 2024
  _UST	MARRIED
  Enfants	1. Willard Alexander ARBOUR,   n. 12 avr 1951, Ontario,,,,Canada, d. 11 août 2010, Ottawa,,,Ontario,Canada,Carleton County (Âgé de 59 ans)   2. Patricia Ann ARBOUR,   n. 1 sept 1953, Ontario,,,,Canada, d. 17 juin 2009, Ottawa,,,Ontario,Canada,Carleton County (Âgé de 55 ans)   3. Debbie Lee ARBOUR,   n. 21 oct 1955, Ontario,,,,Canada, d. 22 oct 1997, Ontario,,,,Canada, (Âgé de 42 ans)   4. Beverly ARBOUR   5. Diane ARBOUR   6. Ruth ARBOUR   7. Timmy ARBOUR
  ID Famille	F815	Feuille familiale  |  Tableau familial
  Dernière modif.	21 août 2024

  
  

• Carte d'événements

  Naissance - 7 oct 1930 - Montreal,,Montreal,Quebec,Canada, Mariage - 9 avr 1955 - Renfrew County,,,Ontario,Canada,Deep River Décès - 16 jan 2000 - Ottawa,,,Ontario,Canada,Carleton County  = Lien Google Earth

  
  

• Notes

  My grandmother (Isobel Connors) had a child out of wedlock. She never identified who the father was. That child was my aunt Lillian Ann. When Lillian was about a year old my grand-mother met and married my grandfather (Joseph Alexander Arbour). Lillian was aware that grandpa was not her biological father. She fell in love with grandpa's brother Willard Ernest Arbour. They hadseven children together. They later divorced. From Catherine via email on 15 Jul 2009: Okay here goes: I am not sure where you got all those different last names for my Aunt Lilian. But I am 100% positive that her name was Lilian Ann Connors at birth. She wasborn in Westmount, Quebec,on 7 October 1930. She was born to my grandmother Isobel Connors. My grandmother never named Lilian's father. My family lived with Aunt Lilian for a month when we moved from Campbell's Bay, Quebec to Ottawa, Ontario when I was 10 years old. My mother and her 1/2 sister Lilian were very close. I do not know when Aunt Lilian married my great-uncle Willard. BUT it is highly likely that they had a couple of children before they married. From Catherine via email on 19 Jul 2009: I spoke to my cousin Ruth (Lillian and Willard's daughter) on Friday. She is coming over for tea sometime this week and will bring her mother's birth registration card to me. I spoke to my Aunt Irene on Friday evening and she says that Grandma(Isobel Connors) probably did not have Lillian baptised. Here is the story I was told: Grandma got pregnant, she did not identify the father.Her father kicked her out and she went to stay with her older sister Sadie during the pregnancy. Lillian was a home birth. Aunt Irene figuresgrandma was ashamed and did not have her baptized because she did not want the baby to be registered as a "bastard" and "father unknown". After Aunt Lillian was born, my great-grandfather (George Connors) needed help at home so Grandma (and baby Lillian) went back home to help. She later met my grandfather, married him, and the rest is history. Mom told me on Friday evening when Aunt Irene was visiting that Aunt Lillian once found"something" in an oldtrunk Grandma had but she didn't know what it was. My Aunt Lillian tried almost to the end of my grandmother's life to find out who her father was - Grandma would never tell. There has got to be a story there. From Catherine via email on 18 Aug 2009: Lillian (mom's 1/2 sister) married her "uncle" Willard. They had 7 children. Theirs was not a match made in heaven and those poor kids suffered for it. The marriage didn't last long. Aunt Lillian was anabusive mother and the kids were taken bythe Children's Aid Society a number of times - but always given back. The sad thing is out of the 7 children only 2 lived happy lives as adults. I was not particularily close to my Aunt Lillian. Weshared a love of vintage jewellery and I was given a few of her pieces when she passedaway. ___ Ottawa Citizen (ON) -- 17 Jan 2000 ARBOUR-VILLENEUVE Lilliane Ann -- 07 Oct 1930 - 16 Jan 2000. Passed away with her family by her side. Beloved wife of Edgar Villeneuve, mother of Ruth (Don Guilbeault), Diane, Beverly, Willy, Patsy (Gord Lenser), and Tim. Predeceased by Debbie. Will be missed by 2 step-children Claire and Gerry. Survived by her brothers andsisters, neices and nephews, and her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. A Funeral Mass will be held at the St Ignatius Parish on Donald Street, Tuesday, 18 January, at 2 pm followed by the interment at the Pinecrest Cemetery. Visiting hours,Monday from 2 to4 and 7 to 9 pm, Tuesday from 12 noon. Funeral arrangements entrusted to Racine, Robert, & Gauthier Funeral Directors, 300 Olmstead Street, Vanier, Ontario, 241-3680.